Saturday, December 12, 2009

The simplicity of life

Hey guys...
when asked " What do u guys do or where do u guys hang out, now that u r married?"
We paused to think.....and..... we don't really have much to comment. It's really individual i guess...
For us, what we would normally do are simple things like, going over to my MIL's place, check out if my BIL and SIL have any plans or basically just staying home , playing PS3 with hubby and Fiq. That is just wat we did this whole week... watched movie on thursday night....except for last night....
Decided to meet up Rasyidah (Kak Ngoi's Fren), as we were both bored , not knowing what to do or where to hang out. It was a simple , more of a get to know session for me and Syidah as last night was our first meet up since Abg Yea and Kak Ngoi's wedding thingy. It was fun. I enjoyed myself chit chatting with her(hoped u did too Syidah) and knowing that she is a simple person who enjoys moderate company, nothing heavy.... humph!!!! that's me too alright...Well, Ladly and Fiq joined us too, eventually!!! Thanks for the company Rasyidah... We all have fun... Its was nice getting to know u a little bit more... We will plan more of such outings in the near future okie...!
Thank you Ladly for making the effort to make this very day possible.... U always have yr ways to make every single day of our life a memorable one... Yr smile, gestures just simply blows me away.... Once again Thank you...
I'll cook chicken rice as a reward today okie...!!!



Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Weeks after weeks of thinking and understanding

Going thru a day without having to worry or wonder abt nothing is indeed inevitable.... haih...
How i wish i was a kid again.... No need to worry abt bills, household.... etc. But god gave me a gift, something that is so right for me. Something that fits the character "ME" therefore i feel so blessed eventhough i had to go thru moments where sadness fills my eyes. I'm not saying that I'm easily contented but what god already gave me are recipes to a happier life. How much or how little of each ingredient needed be added, it's all up to me.....
Last weekend , celebrated my MIL's birthday at our place, Relatives were invited. I cooked up a spread ....
1)Nasi Lemak
2)Sambal Tumis Ikan Bilis with Telur Burung
3)Oyster Chicken
4)Homemade Garlic Bread
5)Beef Bolo
Not for getting everybody had dessert which is "Walnut Choc Loaf with Ice Cream"!!!
Everyone was happy that day, especially myself as all the food that was cooked turned out fine and most importantly edible... ahhahah! The day ends well. I sure do hope my MIL was happy with what was presented. Well that was the weekend.
The new week starts.Been doing a lot of info searching for Syafiq's Sec stream. I just want the best that suits him well. Nobody says it's gonna be easy but if we don't try, we won't know. Me and Ladly will also be taking our O's next year. Wish us luck!!!
So much to think abt and do and yet so little time left..... I wish there was more i could do.
Ladly if u read this, this is what i have to say.
My journey with you this far has been amazing. U have been there with me thru thick and thin, standing by my side, giving the strength and purpose to move on regardless what. U r a true pillar, like the one that i have always imagined to have, who never accepts failure as a setback and never take no for an answer. The endless effort to find the true definition of a "Happy Family" has always been yr motto. There is no 'what ifs' on yr thoughts. U r always certain of yr decisions regardlessly and u r a natural when it comes to fatherly values. U embrace me to fullfill my roles as a wife to u and a mother to Syafiq and our kids in the near future, whole heartedly. The way u confute everybody.... u amazed everyone!!! U stood firm and accepted that everyone has a past, a present and also most definitely a future. And u r the reason who i am today. U r my present and my future. Ladly, I could have never done it without you and i thank u for that.... Baby, u r everything that i could ask for. I wanna grow old with u as we have so many amazing and exciting stories to tell our children and our grandchildren.... Love you always....

Erny